Thanksgiving Traditions Way To Up your Game this Holiday Season

Thanksgiving is about more than just turkey and pie—it's about creating memories, and sometimes the most cherished ones come from the quirkiest, most unexpected traditions.

Let’s explore some unusual Thanksgiving customs that might inspire you to create your own tradition—or at least bring a few laughs to the dinner table.

1. The Wishbone Tug-of-War: Breaking Tradition, Literally

Everyone knows the classic wishbone tradition: two people pull apart the turkey’s wishbone, and whoever ends up with the larger piece gets their wish granted. But some families take this harmless fun to new heights with a Wishbone Tug-of-War.

Here’s how it works:

• The wishbone is carefully extracted from the turkey during carving.
• Instead of a quiet moment between two participants, the whole family gets involved. Spectators cheer, bet on the outcome, and sometimes, the competitors even don themed costumes.

This tradition takes patience to master—after all, the wishbone must be dry to break. While waiting for it to be ready, families share stories, reminisce, or watch football, emphasizing the holiday’s theme of togetherness.

Pro Tip: If you’re carving your first turkey this year, you’ll find the wishbone nestled in the chest, attached to the breast meat. Be careful not to damage it during the carving process!

2. Turkey Trots: The Race to Stay in Shape

For some, Thanksgiving starts with the tantalizing aroma of turkey roasting. For others, it begins with lacing up sneakers and heading to the starting line of a Turkey Trot race.

This tradition involves running or walking a race of varying lengths, often for charity, before indulging in the holiday feast. While I admire the dedication, I must admit—I'm grateful I didn’t marry into a Turkey Trot family. Running isn’t my forte!

For those who do participate, Turkey Trots offer a fun, communal way to balance the calorie-laden dinner ahead. Plus, they’re a great way to support local causes, with proceeds often benefiting food banks or community organizations.

Thinking of joining this year? Many local races in Vancouver and Portland offer family-friendly options, from one-mile fun runs to full-on 10Ks.

3. Potluck Feasts: The Ultimate Culinary Collaboration

Hosting Thanksgiving dinner is a monumental task. Enter the Thanksgiving Potluck—a tradition where guests bring their favorite dishes to share, creating a diverse and exciting spread.

Not only does this reduce the workload for the host, but it also showcases culinary creativity. From Aunt Sue’s famous sweet potato casserole to your best friend’s secret stuffing recipe, potlucks turn the meal into a flavorful adventure.

Need potluck inspiration? Here are a couple of must-try ideas:

• Green Bean Casserole: A timeless classic that’s easy to make and always a hit.
• Balsamic-Roasted Brussels Sprouts: A personal favorite in my family. (Recipe here.)
• More Recipe Ideas

If you're hosting, consider coordinating dishes in advance to avoid duplicates. And remember to have a few extra serving utensils on hand—there's always that one dish no one thought to bring a spoon for!

4. Friendsgiving: Thanksgiving with Your Chosen Family

While Thanksgiving traditionally centers around family, Friendsgiving celebrates the friends who feel like family. This growing trend is especially popular among young adults, those living far from home, or anyone who wants a second round of turkey and stuffing.

Friendsgiving gatherings are typically more laid-back than traditional Thanksgiving dinners. They often feature non-traditional dishes like tacos or pizza alongside classic holiday fare. It’s all about having fun, sharing gratitude, and appreciating the bonds of friendship.

Pro Tip: Hosting a Friendsgiving? Try incorporating games like charades or trivia to keep the atmosphere lively. You can also set up a “Gratitude Wall” where guests can write down what they’re thankful for.

Why These Traditions Matter

I’ve seen firsthand how traditions—big or small—bring people together. These quirky customs add personality and joy to the holiday, making it more than just another meal.

Whether you're embracing the chaos of a Wishbone Tug-of-War, sweating it out in a Turkey Trot, or sharing a dish at a potluck, these traditions create lasting memories and strengthen the bonds between loved ones.

Your Turn to Start a Tradition

Thinking of starting your own unusual Thanksgiving tradition? Here are a few ideas:

1. Thankful Toast: Go around the table and have each person share what they’re thankful for before raising a glass.
2. Pie Contest: Encourage guests to bring their best homemade pie and vote for a winner.
3. DIY Centerpieces: Set up a craft station where kids (and adults!) can create festive decorations for the table.

Traditions, no matter how unusual, are part of what turns a house into a home. This Thanksgiving, embrace the quirks, celebrate the connections, and maybe even try a new tradition of your own. Who knows? It might just become the highlight of your holiday season.

If you’re considering a move to Vancouver, WA, or Portland, OR, let’s connect! I’d love to help you find the perfect home where you can start new traditions and create cherished memories.

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